I'm self-employed motilium tabletten We are extraordinary creatures. We recognise our own weaknesses, our failings and mistakes and yet we seem incapable of escaping the grim inevitability of repeating them again and again. I don’t think you are a particularly bad man. Serial monogamy is the norm for most of us. But you have muddied the waters by introducing children into the equation. It doesn’t feel like your own life any more because it isn’t. This is no longer a simple case of what will make you happy because you have now involved five little humans – so think very carefully. You don’t even sound all that unhappy in your letter, just bored; and you clearly see that leaving is the lazy, selfish option.